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Styles Season 2 Episode 73

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You can go viral today and invisible tomorrow.
That alone should tell you the game was never yours.

This episode gets into the truth creators keep dancing around: too many people are stressing over an algorithm nobody controls. Styles breaks down why people are chasing approval from systems built to shift whenever they feel like it—while losing pieces of themselves trying to keep up.

Styles talks about the real price of attention. What are people watering down for reach? What truth gets muted? Who gets clowned for clicks? How much dignity gets traded just to keep numbers moving?

Then Styles goes where people get uncomfortable: is the algorithm racist? Not internet drama. Real talk. He breaks down how human bias can still live inside technology. When slang gets flagged, confidence gets read as aggression, and certain voices get treated like “too much,” it’s fair to ask who these systems really work for. Bias didn’t disappear online—it just upgraded.

Then Styles pivots to the smarter move: stop building castles on rented land.
Followers are cool. Ownership is better.

He breaks down why every serious creator needs direct access: email lists, websites, products, community, and income streams that don’t vanish because an app changed its mood overnight. Styles also challenges fake celebrity culture and talks about supporting our own talent, our own businesses, and building ecosystems that actually last.

If you create content, run a brand, own a business, or feel tired of tap dancing for attention—this episode is for you.

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A Hard Day And A Real Talk;

Styles

Damn, it's been it's been a hell of a day for me. Anyway, good morning, good afternoon, good evening. I'm not sure when you're listening to this, but pull up for a second. Now, let me be clear from the jump. None of us truly know what the inner workings of the algorithm is. Right? I think we can all agree on that. We're having conversations about a machine that we don't control, built by people we don't know and adjusted in rooms, we're not invited to. Just keep it funky. So when people speak on it, like they crack the code, relax. Because the algorithm has an algorithm, and the people behind that, they got their own agenda.

The Hidden Cost Of Going Viral;

Styles

What we do know is this. Some people do slip through the cracks, right? Some people learn how to play by master's rules, and sometimes they come up. Cool. But let's talk about the cost of that come up. What version of yourself did you have to water down? Who did you have to clown? What truth did you have to mute? And what dignity did you have to trade for distribution? Because if your success depends on somebody else's button, that's rented power. One update, one policy change, one silent shadow ban, now you're back to zero explaining to strangers why your numbers fell off. That's why the real conversation shouldn't be around how to beat the algorithm, but the real question is, how do we build around it? How do we create platforms, pipelines, audiences, communities, and money that don't disappear every time an app gets moody? Alright, so I don't do side notes in a in a monologue, but I need to know if IG had a Zodiac sign, what would it be? Yeah, anyway, back to business. And let me say this with love and a super duper capital F. F to celebrities. The people that I know, raising kids, building brands, surviving pressure, creating from nothing, those are celebrities to me. The only thing separating them from mainstream fame is reach and a paycheck. That's it. So maybe the mission isn't begging to be chosen. Maybe it's choosing our own. Alright, let's go inside and talk about it.

Is The Algorithm Racist;

Styles

Welcome to the Brunch Behavior The Poor Report. I'm Styles, and today's pour a cold glass of coated side eye with a splash of that can't be a coincidence. Let me break it down for you. The Sip Sermon. So let's ask the question in a grown way. Is the algorithm racist? Maybe, or maybe not in a cartoon sense that people like to argue about. But here's what I know for sure. Systems don't appear out of thin air. They're built by people, funded by people, protected by people, and historically many of these same systems were never designed with us in mind. True or false? That's the part that folks like to skip. Because bias didn't start online. It just got Wi-Fi recently. We've seen people profit off of a disadvantage forever. Redlining neighborhoods, unequal lending, hiring discrimination, keep going, underfunded schools, predatory policing, keep going, media stereotypes, gatekeeping opportunity, now fast forward. Those same human mindsets can show up in code. Moderation tools, hiring software, facial recognition, lending models, and content breaking systems is what we're talking about right now. Same smoke, it's just a new building. And when powerful people argue that fairness rules somehow violate their freedom, pay attention. Because sometimes freedom in those conversations really means freedom from accountability. Side note, some folks don't hate discrimination. They hate when discrimination gets interrupted. But that's a different sermon. So no, the machine didn't wake up racist on its own. But if by its hands built it, train it, protect it, and profit from it, why would the outcome magically be neutral? That's not rhetorical. I'm expecting an answer at some point.

How Bias Shows Up In Code;

Styles

And that's where the creators like us get caught in the middle. Because our rhythm gets mistaken for aggression, our slang gets mistaken for danger, our confidence gets mistaken for hostility, and our pain gets mistaken for controversial content. Meanwhile, nonsense is trending daily. Then some people are in the formula. They realize that if they degrade themselves, degrade us, lean into the stereotypes, and perform this function, the machine rewards it. And indeed it does. Now they're growing. But growing into what though? What are they growing into? Because if the version of you that wins online is the version of you that dishonest yourself offline, that's not growth. That's digital rent money. So the better conversation is not how do I go viral? It's how do I build ownership? How do I keep in contact with my audience? How do I survive platform mood swings? Because visibility without ownership is temporary applause. But you already knew this though.

Stereotypes That Get Rewarded;

Styles

This is what it looks like in real life. You know somebody with real talent. They could cook, teach, lead, motivate, build, create, style, and heal. But because they can't dance for the app, nobody sees them. Then somebody else disrespects themselves for clicks, acts out for attention, as dramatic captions and fake chaos. Boom. Instant motion. That's one. 2. You post something uplifting in your natural voice. Low reach. But if you post beef, fake relationship drama and a little bit of humiliation, now the numbers wake up. 3. The creator builds their whole identity on one platform. Then the app changes the rules. Views down, money down, confidence down, pedig up. 4. We ignore genius in our neighborhoods because it isn't verified. But let a stranger with followers repeat it? Now is brilliance. Side note Some of y'all don't want leaders, you want creative packaging. You don't want wisdom, you want blue checks attached to it. And that mindset keeps us dependent. We need to normalize making our own people stars. Support the local photographer, the chef, the barber. Support the woman with the brand. Support the

Make Your Own People Stars;

Styles

podcaster with 200 listeners dropping sharper gems to people with 2 million followers. And I know a lot of podcasters that I know are listening to this, so they dig where I'm coming from with that. That's how ecosystems are built. And historically, every time black communities built strong ecosystems, they were often attacked, undermined, and stripped apart. Here's a couple of examples. Tulsa's Greenwood District was destroyed after becoming a thriving economic hub. Rosewood suffered similar devastation. That movie terrified me. I mean it it I'd still have PTSD. The Black Panther Party was targeted while feeding children and organizing communities. So when people say build your own, understand it, that phrase comes with scars, not slogans. The

Build Around Platforms You Do Not Own;

Styles

final pull. So what's the takeaway? Maybe the better question isn't is the algorithm racist. Maybe it's why we trust in systems we don't own to validate people we already know are valuable. That was a good one. That's the real pull. So stop waiting for strangers to certify greatness that already lives in your circle. Stop thinking fame equals value. Stop confusing reach with worth. Use the platforms, but don't worship them. Build your own email list, build your own website, build your community. They all go hand in hand. Build your products, build direct access, and most importantly, build each other. Sip happens. Every sip tells a story. That's your paw for today.

Final Takeaway And Shameless Plug

Styles

Shameless plug time. Oh, and if you haven't noticed, we left out the feature drink because I wanted everybody to be sober and have a clear mind as we take this in. Anyway, if you're tired of chasing visibility and ready to own your own voice, grab the free pour. Five drinks, five sermons, and a moment to breathe. And when you're ready to toast the bigger things, sip the brunch behavior summer pack. The links in the description. Just another reminder that the people around you, they might already be stars. From your boy Styles. Catch you on the next pour.

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