Your Attendance Ain’t Attending: Why They Never Show Up

Brunch Flakes: When the RSVP Doesn’t Match the Energy

Ever notice how some people love the idea of brunch but never make it to the table? In this episode of Brunch Behavior: The Pour Report, Styles pours into modern flake culture—the enthusiastic RSVPs, the last-minute cancellations, and the silence that hits right after the menu drops.

This episode breaks down:

• Why ghosting brunch plans isn’t harmless—it’s grown-folk disrespect
• The emotional labor of hosting for people who never follow through
• How “maybe” energy quietly wastes your time, space, and patience
• The difference between intentions and consistency
• Why your peace, your table, and your bandwidth are not unlimited

If you’re tired of chasing confirmation texts, holding seats for maybes, and pretending it doesn’t bother you—this pour is your clarity moment.

🎧 Press play if you’re ready to stop over-inviting and start protecting your time.

🔥 Grab the Free Pour Five—five sermons, five drinks, and a reminder that your time has value.

📚 Ready to enforce no-flake-zone standards? Tap into the Brunch Behavior Summer Pack.

Link in the description. SIP happens. Every SIP tells a story.

Transcript

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Welcome to the Brunch Behavior, the Poor Report, and I'm Styles. And today's poor is lukewarm, just like their commitment. Let me break this one down for you. The Sip Sermon. You planned brunch. The reservation was made. You picked a spot with cute lighting and the bottomless mimosas. Sent the invite. Picked a fit. And then, crickets. Excuses. No-shows. Let's be real. Some folks RSVP to the idea brunch, not the commitment. They like the idea of being invited, not the responsibility of showing up. Sounds like you got a bunch of Leos in your life. Now here's what it really looks like in the wild. The brunch behavior breakdown. You see, people RSVP to what they want to be. The version that's social, punctual, dependable. But when the day comes, real life kicks in. Confidence crumbles and your table ends up looking like a scene from Home Alone. Don't argue with me. Or argue with your mother. Stop chasing ghosts and start honoring the ones that showed up. Give grace, but clock patterns. Repeated flakiness isn't a mistake, it's a habit. And grown folks deserve more than, maybe, energy. If you gotta rewind that, listen to it again, please do so. So what's the takeaway? People who value your presence don't need multiple reminders to show up. Respect is rarely silent and never that inconsistent. And that's your pool for today. Ayo, if you felt this in your spirit, grab your copy of the free pool. Five drinks and five truths to keep your energy clean. And for the full experience, tap into the Brunch Behavior Summer Pack. Links in the description. You know, blah, blah, blah. I had to say that. You already know what it is. This was just another attendance check from your boy Styles.